Get to know each other questions for couples

All 50 get to know you questions

1. What's a small thing I do that makes you feel loved, that I probably don't even notice?
2. What did you think about me the first week we talked that you never said out loud?
3. Which version of yourself do you like best: the one at work, with friends, or with me?
4. What's something you were scared to tell me early on that turned out fine?
5. When was the last time you felt really proud of me?
6. What's a habit of mine you secretly find adorable?
7. If we could relive one day together, which one would you pick?
8. What's the most 'you' thing you've done this month?
9. What does a perfect lazy Sunday with me look like, minute by minute?
10. Which of your friends' relationships do you look at and think 'that's us'? Which one 'never'?
11. What's a compliment you got once that you still think about?
12. What's something you want to get better at, and how could I help without being annoying?
13. What song would play in the movie scene where we meet?
14. What's the pettiest thing you've ever been mad at me about?
15. Which of my texts would you screenshot to show your friends?
16. What's a 'red flag' about me you decided to ignore, and were you right?
17. What are you most looking forward to with me this year?
18. If money didn't matter, where would we live and what would we do all day?
19. What's a fear you have about us that you've never said?
20. How do you know when I'm actually okay versus saying I'm okay?
21. What's one thing from your childhood you want to recreate with me?
22. What's the last thing that made you laugh so hard you couldn't breathe?
23. Which of my outfits should I never get rid of?
24. What do you need from me on a bad day: space, a hug, or a distraction?
25. What's something you've changed your mind about since we got together?
26. What's the most romantic thing that has happened to us that wasn't planned?
27. When do you feel most like yourself around me?
28. What's a boundary you wish you'd set earlier in your life?
29. If you could send one message to me five years from now, what would it say?
30. What's the thing you'd defend about me to anyone, no matter what?
31. What's a tiny tradition we have that you'd be sad to lose?
32. What's the best advice anyone ever gave you about love?
33. What's something you find hard to ask for, from anyone?
34. How do you want to be remembered by the people who love you?
35. What was the moment you knew this was more than a situationship?
36. What's something you pretend to be over but aren't?
37. Which of my family members were you most nervous to meet, and how did it actually go?
38. What would a day off from being an adult look like for you?
39. What's a thing you do only when you're alone that I'd love to see?
40. What are we better at together than either of us is alone?
41. What's a compliment you wish I'd give you more often?
42. What's something you'd love to learn together, even if we'd be terrible at it?
43. Which part of our story would you tell our future kids, or our future dog?
44. When did you last feel jealous, and what was it actually about?
45. What does 'home' mean to you, and does it have anything to do with me?
46. What's a rule you have for yourself that nobody else knows?
47. What's the most grown-up thing you've done lately, and the least?
48. Which of my dreams do you believe in more than I do?
49. What's one thing you'd want me to do differently the next time we fight?
50. What's something about us you'd never post, because it's only ours?